May 03, 2011

Da dump...da dump...da dump...

So I got a phone call from Mandy last night. I have to tell you, for the past few months, when I've seen her number in my caller ID, I've gotten a bit nervous.

Mandy is just a few days away from being halfway through this pregnancy. But understandably, she's been a bit of a nervous pregnant person and I suppose some of it has rubbed off on me, in spite of all my "I've done this and you need to relax" wisdom. :)

So I answer the phone and I hear, "da dump, da dump, da dump." Just as I'm thinking there's something wrong with the connection Mandy comes on and says, "Did you hear that Mom?!!!"

Let me tell you how blessed I am that Aaron is my son-in-law. Um...Aaron is Mandy's husband but more importantly, he's the father of my next grandbaby. LOL

After such a struggle to even get, much less STAY, pregnant, Mandy was very comforted by the ultrasounds her specialist did every week for the first three months. That's every single week, folks. And each time, she got to hear the baby's heartbeat.

Once she was referred to her regular ob/gyn because she was no longer high-risk, the weekly ultrasounds stopped. That means the weekly hearing of the baby's heartbeat stopped.

Aaron knew that this upset her. After all, she still couldn't feel the baby move.

I get it. I really do. But Aaron REALLY got it!

So he went on line and ordered a Doppler for Mandy. See? How lucky am I to have him for a son-in-law?

But....when he ordered it, he failed to notice that it would ship from....are you ready?....CHINA.

OK, guess how long it takes to get a shipment of anything from China.

I almost fell out of my chair laughing when she told me, weeks and weeks ago, that Aaron was giving her a Doppler but heaven only knew when it would arrive. LOL

It arrived yesterday.

And last night I picked up my phone and I heard, "da dump, da dump, da dump."

She now has a simple instrument that she can put on her tummy and hear her baby's heartbeat.

Mandy turned thirty on Sunday. That means it's been thirty years since I had my last baby. Let me tell you, times have changed. We had an educated guess that the baby would be a girl but only because rumor had it a faster heartbeat usually meant a girl. There was absolutely no data that I knew of to back this up, but I counted on it being true because I wanted another baby girl. :)

We certainly did not know, until the doctor held the baby up and said, "Yep. It's a girl!"

I have to tell you, I love technology. I often wonder if perhaps we've become too dependent on technology. Do little kids still go outside at dusk and chase fireflies? Do they actually walk away from their computers or Wii's or Nintendo DS'es long enough to go outside and breathe and do the things I did when I was little?

Is there even such a thing as a mom-to-be who doesn't know if she should decorate in pink or blue?

Sometimes I wish we could return to the days when things were simpler. But just this one time, I'm extremely thankful for technology.

Da dump...da dump...da dump....music to this Nana's ears.

20 comments:

Momma said...

Aw, blessed blessed news. This is so very wonderful, Barb. Btw, we have the breakfast casserole all the time that was part of Mandy's wedding shower (I think it's Aaron's mom's recipe). It's a huge hit here and I make it for dinner at least once every 4-6 weeks. Just thought I'd share that.
Blessings,
Toni
p.s. glad to see you updating again.

The Tuckers said...

I can't tell you how much this hit home with me. We heard the heartbeat of our little one Monday for the first time. We struggled for years with fertility issues. They say the mama's heartbeat soothes the baby- but in so many cases their little heartbeat soothes ours too. What a peaceful and powerful sound!

Barbara H. said...

Just loved reading this! So sweet! I'm glad Aaron found a Doppler and Mandy can listen to her little one's heartbeat any time she wants.

Technology does have its problems, but mostly I AM VERY GLAD FOR IT.

Barbara H. said...

Oops -- didn't mean to go all caps there at the end -- I didn't realize I had hit "Caps Lock." I wasn't at all "shouting" my last line, lol!

Bev said...

Love this!

Southern Comfort said...

They didn't have any of that stuff when I was pregnant either. Actually I've never heard of a Doppler but I'm so glad you get to experience it. Congratulations again!

Dianne - Bunny Trails said...

So cool! I know what you mean about technology. I didn't even have an ultrasound with my first (he's 17), but did with my second (16). And that wasn't all that long ago.

So happy for you and your family. Congratulations! :D

Susanne said...

How sweet of them to play that on the phone for you! So exciting.

Robin in New Jersey said...

This makes me smile for you.

AnnG said...

Very exciting!! I love this aspect of technology!! Yay for Mandy and Aaron!!

Kathleen said...

I am so a happy for all of you. There is nothing more wonderful than a precious new baby!

Richard said...

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Dawn said...

Okay - I had stopped checking in with you and here you've posted 3 times since I checked! And we just "spoke" this week. What a great guy Aaron is. But I knew that from the first time I "met" him on paper in his application essay for grad school.

I actually know a few couples who are waiting to find out the gender of their babies until they're born.

It was fun to be back over here!

pam said...

So happy about your news. I sure do miss you posting about your grands. Come back soon! pam

Michelle said...

I agree with Pam, I miss reading about your little family! :) I did see the pictures of the nursery that Mandy posted. Very exciting!

Robin in New Jersey said...

Hi Barb! It's been almost 3 months since you posted. I sure hope you are doing OK and all is well with you and your family.

jamie b said...

we miss you!!

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So happy about your news. I sure do miss you posting about your grands. Come back soon! pam

Sew Much To Thank Him For said...

I know its a little late for this now, but next time if you can find a WalMart close to you, they have them for 21.95 and they work great. I know how it is not knowing. I too experienced infertility for 7 years and miscarried as well. That doppler probably prevented me from having a nevous breakdown. Even 7 days seemed like an eternity sometimes.

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